A very dear friend of mine
Fought with all her might against an unseen enemy
cancer
Yellow bellied low life cancer
So many people I have loved
Have waged that same battle
Some have won
Most have not
Daddy, Mama, my sister Donna Rae
Multitudes of aunts, uncles, cousins and friends
But today
Right now
As I type these words
My friend is dancing and singing at the feet of Jesus
No more pain
No more suffering
With her beautiful smile
Shining eyes
And long lovely hair
Whole
Healthy
This is how I will remember you
A teenage girl who took the time to care about a gangly preteen
You made me feel special and loved
Even when it wasn’t popular to do so
You helped me see Jesus by your actions
And I’ll never forget your cool car
You even let me ride in it!
I remember a time you redecorated your room
I suspect you wanted to spend time hanging out in there without a tagalong
But you let me stay anyway
You were always so beautiful and I wanted to be just like you
I fixed my hair like yours
Tried to put my makeup on like yours
When you were on a diet
So was I
Now, you’ve beat me to Heaven
But I think you are just paving the way
I’ll see you soon my friend
Until then
We will not grieve as those who have no hope
Because we know that to be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord

So sorry for your loss, my friend. This was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with me. Love u.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful eulogy, MJ. We’re blessed going in, and blessed going out. This kind of a friendship is another grand example.